17 years ago.....  / Carin (Mum)

It sounds such a long time but it feels like yesterday. When I give my thoughts over to you and only you, it is YOU that feels so real and everythings in my life, like a dream. I can't let myself do that so much any more, it's just too hard to come back to the everyday.

I have been seeing twin babies everywhere lately. Is that you preparing me for Cooper's babies??? I know it is life and I have to deal with it and so fantastic for the Eason's and they are important right now.

But....it is still so hard. I am a twin parent, but not to the outside world. Nobody sees it anymore, it is just something from long ago to them. But I live it always. It is who I am.

Hope you are flying high with your Angel friends today and not being to naughty or leading those little angels astry!!

We miss you so much and remember that horrible, life altering day 17 years ago, 25th March 1991 with so much love and so much pain.

All my love and more,

Mum xoxoxoxo

 

 

Close

Happy 18th Birthday  / Melissa Eason (Friend)

Christopher,

Happy 18th Birthday to you and to Thomas.  I wonder what you are like in Heaven on your 18th Birthday. Hope you have invited Cooper to your party!!!

I know what a special day this is to your Mum, the day her 2 beautiful boys reach a milestone, one in Heaven and one on Earth.  If I could wish for one thing today it would be to bring you back to your Mum for lots of cuddles and Birthday cake (you would probably hate cuddles and want to go to the pub for a beer!) I wish that is all your Mum had to worry about!!  It's hard not talking to you like you are a baby.  I suppose you were and always will be your Mummy's little boy.

We saw your Rainbows today, a beautiful sign and celebration of you Christopher. 

Happy Birthday, know that you are and always will be so loved and so missed.

xxxxxMelissa, Josh, Olivia and angel Cooper.

Close

HAPPY 18TH BIRTHDAY!!  / Kerrie Murphy (Friend)

Hi Baby Boy.  Happy 18th Birthday.   How I wish you could be here to celebrate with your twin Thomas, your gorgeous sisters and your loving parents. But instead I will believe that you are playing in the clouds and sliding down rainbows with my boy Cooper. 
I saw a rainbow this afternoon - especially for you.
Dear Christopher, life is not fair. Why didnt you get to grow up and experience life with your family. Having your first 'legal' beer with your brother on your 18th - finishing your HSC, going to Schoolies, planning for the future............ Would you have been like Thomas or so very different?
But all the angel babies are patient, time means nothing, they will wait for us to join them again one day.  In the meantime we have our memories and our lives to continue with.
Send your love and kisses to all who love you.  
Happy birthday baby.......
Always xxxxxx

Close

A beautiful tribute  / Lori Sullivan (mommy 2 angel twins )
I think it is beautiful that after all these years you have created this beautiful memorial to your son, we never stop greiving our children, and yes it happens in stages, it's been 2 and a half years since my girls died, and I think of them every single day, they are so much a part of our lives. Through these sites my older girls have been able to greive the lil sisters they didnt get to know or meet, and since then Ive had a beautiful son who will also get to know his big sisters. I have met many friends and hope Ive been able to brighten one day by liting a candle or writing a tribute. Our children and loved ones are never forgotten. I thankyou so much for sharing your beautiful son with me, it's an inspiring story of greif and healing. I wish you Gods sweet grace and will think of Christopher often and his brother who I know misses him so much, and of course the rest of you. Thanks again for sharing,Love another angels mom,Lori Sullivan
My girls are here too Kinsey&Kylee Sullivan Close

Hello / Lena De Biasio (Mom to angel Luca )
Thank you for sharing your story as hard as it is. I'm sorry for your loss and can relate to your every word and feelings. It has been almost 10 months since Luca passed away during an afternoon nap, just a few days after Cooper and it feels like yesterday. Your story gives me hope for a "new normal life"   but the longing to hold him  and the wonder of what it would be like if he was still here is very difficult. Close

Poem for Mummy  / Melissa Eason Cooper's Mum (Friend)
A Child's Angel
by Erma Bombeck

Once upon a time, there was a child ready to be born.

He asked God:

"They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow but how am I going
to live there being so small and helpless?"

God: "Among the many angels, I chose one especially for you. She will
be waiting for you and will take care of you."

Child: "But tell me, here in Heaven, I don't do anything else but sing
and smile, and that's enough for me to be happy. Will I be happy
there?"

God: "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you every
day.
You will feel your angel's love and be happy."

Child: "How am I going to be able to understand when people talk to
me if I don't know the language that men talk?"

God: "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you
will ever hear.
With much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."

Child: "And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

God: "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."

Child: "I've heard that on earth there are bad men. Who will protect me?"

God: "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking her own life."

Child: "But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

God: "Your angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way to come back to me, even though I will always be next to you."

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from earth
could already be heard.
The child, in a hurry, asked softly:

"Oh God, if I am about to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."

God: "Your angel's name is of no importance.
You will call your angel ... Mommy."
Close

A Mother's Day Thought From Christopher  / Melissa Eiler (Visitor)

Close

Poem / Lise Vernier Jess Murphy (Sister/friend)
dear Christopher

Jess and me have made up a poem for you


Christopher and his angel friends
are as happy as can be...
with so much love and happiness
you are so very special to Lise and me

Send us lots of rainbows,
storms and sun and rain
with lots and lots and lots of love
That may help us get through this awful pain.

We love you so very much
you are one of a kind
with so much love to give
you won't be hard to find

love lots and lots and lots and alot more lots of love
lise & Jess xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxxoxoxoxo




Close

Today..... / Melissa Eason (Friend)

Hi Christopher,

Thinking of you and especially your family today on your 'angel day'. A day, 16 years ago that you were taken from your loving family.  A day I know only too well.  I know the tremendous ache and pain in your Mummy's heart.  

Your Mummy is truly amazing and today be with her, let her feel your love and your prescence.  Maybe you and Cooper could send her a rainbow to make this unbearable day somehow bearable.

"Mother's hold their childrens hand for a short time but their hearts forver"

Take care sweet boy, know you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly.

Close

On Your Angel Day  / Kerrie Murphy

16 years since the day you went away.  Your twin Thomas has  grown up to be a wonderful young man as I know you would have too.  Would you have been the same? Or so totally different.  What we have to believe is that you are in a happy place and guiding your family from there. Watching over them, keeping them safe.
Your mum Carin has been a wonderful friend and confidante. Her support for Melissa (and me) after Cooper died continues. Wise words, learned the hard way.  She gives us hope that life will get better one day, one day.  To see your family - your mum and dad, brother Thomas and sisters Ali and Lise leading a 'normal' life again. One day. 
With the death of our beautiful boy Cooper, our families lives have become entwined - a tragic bond indeed.
Christopher, you are still and always will be, so sadly missed. You will never be forgotten and I'm so pleased that this site has been created so we can visit you - and remember you.
Bless you, precious child.
Much love - Always xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Close

Never forgotten  / Alison Fox (Friend to the Easons )
I wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you, especially today.  Where ever you are and what ever you do, Christopher will be with you in spirit.

The years may pass...but your love for Christopher will never fade, it will remain forever.


Christopher...shine bright always little one.

Big hugs and kisses for you.

Alison
xxx Close

I can't believe....  / Mum
it has been 16 years since you went away. The tears come so readily and the ache in my heart is always there. How can it be after all these years????

 25/3/1991

We hosted our first twins club morning tea that day. You had such a lovely morning following all the big kids around our place. I remember you had cake and watermelon for lunch. What the heck...it was a beautiful chaos, twins and triplets everywhere!
We were part of such a special group, and it was damn hard work.  But it really was "twice as nice".

You and Thomas were really good mates and, after missing out on my undivided attention as babies, you were finally reaping the benifits of having a  built in playmate  24/7.

Why, after all our hard work, did you have to die???

We are going to visit your grave tomorrow and give you a little pressie that I thought was really appropriate....a red  Mini Cooper S.
Significant, as you would be learning to drive now, just like Thomas, and I know you are looking after Cooper in heaven.

We love you and miss you little, little man

Mum
Close

Thinking of you  / Melissa Eason (Friend)
Hi Christopher,

Although we have not met our families have bonded through the loss of our little boys, you and Cooper.  We are living this life in hope that we will all get to meet one day in Heaven. What a party that will be!

Your Mummy has been a wonderful friend to me and such a great comfort and support.  Your Daddy and Cooper's Daddy also have created a bond that only you and Cooper can understand.

It brings me comfort to know that you would have met Cooper at the gates of Heaven. 

It's coming up to your angel day and I'm sure it's still a day that haunts your Mummy & Daddy.  The day their healthy beautiful boy did not wake up.  We still don't have a reason for your death but I'm working on it Christopher.  I've met some wonderful people worldwide and that is our mission in life. To prevent this from happening to other beautiful children and to give us a reason.  It's the 'nothingness' that makes it just so hard to accept.

I can see you and Cooper together, 2 beautiful cheeky boys chasing rainbows.

xMel, Josh & Olivia

Close

hello / Alison Fox

Hello Christoper

Have fun with all your angel friends....my love and best wishes to you and your family.

xxxxxxxxxx

Close

Hey baby Boy,  / Carin (Mum)
Hi Little little man,
How is Cooper? Hope you are keeping an eye on him. His family misses him so very much and the hurt is getting stronger.
We remember that, don't we.

I can't promise that this site will be as flash as Cooper's, but it is because of Him that I felt I had to do this. So...thank you Cooper.

It has been a tough 5 months since Cooper died, and a lot of feelings that I hadn't felt in a long time, came back with vengence. They were never gone of course, but just below the surface.
Take it easy babe,
all my love  
Mum Close